"The only thing in your control is effort. That's all and that's everything" // 101:365
Efforts. What do efforts mean to everyone?
To me, efforts means everything. When you want or need something, you have to put in effort to get them, be it having to put in alot of effort or not. After getting them, you have to continue putting in effort to take care of them, and constantly ensure they are good etc.
Perhaps it's just me. I'd rather someone puts in the exact same effort they once did for me/something all the way, instead of putting in their 100% effort just to get you/something and reduce their effort to e.g 50% once they got it. If you think you can only give out 50% of your effort everytime, then give your 50% from the start, and not decrease them overtime. Don't blame it on the expectations someone has on your efforts because, expectations were built from efforts.
However, i do agree that efforts doesn't get you everything you wanted. Sometimes, your efforts don't mean anything when it doesn't require effort from someone else. Sometimes, your efforts doesn't pay off. And this sucks. It just shows that even our best isn't enough....
I've been trying my best to do things that requires a lot of effort for me, such as learning the guitar etc, but no matter how much effort i put in, i just can't do it. I dislike how i am, unlike others and the people out there, who are naturally gifted, who doesn't need as much effort to learn something simple.
Having to put in constant efforts is really hard, i'd say. Besides, it's easy to say and hard to do, as the saying goes "actions speak louder than words"
Everyone wants something, wants someone, wants to be worth some effort, yet no one is willing to give the effort. Humans love receiving and not giving. That's the world we're living in i guess.
To me, efforts means everything. When you want or need something, you have to put in effort to get them, be it having to put in alot of effort or not. After getting them, you have to continue putting in effort to take care of them, and constantly ensure they are good etc.
Is getting them all you wanted?
Perhaps it's just me. I'd rather someone puts in the exact same effort they once did for me/something all the way, instead of putting in their 100% effort just to get you/something and reduce their effort to e.g 50% once they got it. If you think you can only give out 50% of your effort everytime, then give your 50% from the start, and not decrease them overtime. Don't blame it on the expectations someone has on your efforts because, expectations were built from efforts.
However, i do agree that efforts doesn't get you everything you wanted. Sometimes, your efforts don't mean anything when it doesn't require effort from someone else. Sometimes, your efforts doesn't pay off. And this sucks. It just shows that even our best isn't enough....
I've been trying my best to do things that requires a lot of effort for me, such as learning the guitar etc, but no matter how much effort i put in, i just can't do it. I dislike how i am, unlike others and the people out there, who are naturally gifted, who doesn't need as much effort to learn something simple.
Having to put in constant efforts is really hard, i'd say. Besides, it's easy to say and hard to do, as the saying goes "actions speak louder than words"
Everyone wants something, wants someone, wants to be worth some effort, yet no one is willing to give the effort. Humans love receiving and not giving. That's the world we're living in i guess.
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